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The Story Behind the Stone: Diamond & gemstones cut to push light performances

The Story Behind the Stone: Diamond & gemstones cut to push light performances

Transparent gemstones and diamonds are magnets of ...

Jewelers for Children announces 2016 Rings of Strength Tour

Jewelers for Children announces 2016 Rings of Strength Tour

Bike, run or walk to help children in need

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South Carolina jeweler re-opens after second theft

South Carolina jeweler re-opens after second theft

“But those who suffer he delivers in their sufferi...

Darling Imports helps you keep up with the trends

Darling Imports helps you keep up with the trends

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Could more acidic oceans mean less pearls?

Could more acidic oceans mean less pearls?

Increasingly acidic sea conditions have been shown to weaken the shells of pearl oysters—but it appears these mollusks are pretty resilient creatures.

AsianScientist (Jan. 29, 2016) - Pearls have adorned the necklines of women throughout history, but ...

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Midwest Jewelers Conference & Show - A new show with a history

Midwest Jewelers Conference & Show - A new show with a history

 

The 2016 Midwest Jewelers Conference & Show (MJC) is the “new” Jewelers Educational Conference, a regional jewelry conference and show that has been held biannually in suburban Kansas City, Missouri for 16 years. The name change, along with a mo...

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Texas Institute of Jewelry Technology awards outstanding students

Texas Institute of Jewelry Technology awards outstanding students

An awards ceremony was held for students attending the Texas Institute of Jewelry Technology (TIJT) at Paris Junior College at the end of the fall semester.

Winners of a student design contest were: Jonathan Martin in CAD/CAM, Tony Henderson in Wax Ca...

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Jewelry Website Designers rolls out exciting new website

Jewelry Website Designers rolls out exciting new website

Jewelry Website Designers (JWD), a leading designer of websites for the jewelry industry, has announced the launch of a completely new website ( www.jewelrywebsitedesigners.com ) for 2016 that includes more intuitive navigation, and a line up of valuab...

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Esperanza Diamond Tour starts in Arkansas

Esperanza Diamond Tour starts in Arkansas

Hailed as most valuable diamond ever found in U.S.

There are events that happen with such incredible timing and good fortune it almost seems like divine intervention is at work. Such is the case with the 8.52-carat Esperanza Diamond rough. From its se...

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Could more acidic oceans mean less pearls?

3 DAYS AGO
Could more acidic oceans mean less pearls?

Increasingly acidic sea conditions have been shown to weaken the shells of pearl oysters—but it appears these mollusks are pretty resilient creatures.

AsianScientist (Jan. 29, 2016) - Pearls have adorned the necklines of women throughout history, but some evidence suggests that the gems’ future could...

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World's top 10 rookie gold mines

3 DAYS AGO
World's top 10 rookie gold mines

These high-grade mines will soon start competing with gold mining's industry leaders

The gold market is not a traditional mineral commodity market where one is able, under certain assumptions and limitations, to analyze supply/demand relationships and to make reasonable forecasts regarding future pri...

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Jewelers for Children announces 2016 Rings of Strength Tour

5 DAYS AGO
Jewelers for Children announces 2016 Rings of Strength Tour

Bike, run or walk to help children in need

Jewelers for Children (JFC) will hold the fourth installment of the very popular Rings of Strength on Thursday, June 2 in Las Vegas. Start time will be at 5:30 a.m. outside the tour bus entrance at the Mandalay Bay Resort Casino. Participants will be able to...

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Midwest Jewelers Conference & Show - A new show with a history

5 DAYS AGO
Midwest Jewelers Conference & Show - A new show with a history

 

The 2016 Midwest Jewelers Conference & Show (MJC) is the “new” Jewelers Educational Conference, a regional jewelry conference and show that has been held biannually in suburban Kansas City, Missouri for 16 years. The name change, along with a move to Kansas City’s downtown Power & Light Ent...

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Texas Institute of Jewelry Technology awards outstanding students

5 DAYS AGO
Texas Institute of Jewelry Technology awards outstanding students

An awards ceremony was held for students attending the Texas Institute of Jewelry Technology (TIJT) at Paris Junior College at the end of the fall semester.

Winners of a student design contest were: Jonathan Martin in CAD/CAM, Tony Henderson in Wax Carving and Andrew Ferguson in Fabrication and Desig...

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Industry veteran Michael Haider joins Taché USA as VP of Sales

10 DAYS AGO
Industry veteran Michael Haider joins Taché USA as VP of Sales

(NEW YORK) – Taché USA, a leading manufacturer of fine diamond jewelry, from bridal to fashion, is pleased to announce that industry veteran Michael Haider has joined the company as Vice President of Sales.

Michael will have the responsibility of working with existing customers as well as developing n...

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Jewelry Website Designers rolls out exciting new website

5 DAYS AGO
Jewelry Website Designers rolls out exciting new website

Jewelry Website Designers (JWD), a leading designer of websites for the jewelry industry, has announced the launch of a completely new website ( www.jewelrywebsitedesigners.com ) for 2016 that includes more intuitive navigation, and a line up of valuable add-on services enabling independent jewelers t...

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JVC releases “Getting It Right - JVC’s Guide to Quality Programs for Jewelers”

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JVC releases “Getting It Right - JVC’s Guide to Quality Programs for Jewelers”

(NEW YORK) - JVC has announced the publication of its latest guide - “Getting It Right – JVC’s Guide to Quality Programs for Jewelers” - published with a generous grant from International Gemological Institute (IGI).

The latest publication from the JVC provides simple and useable tools for all jeweler...

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I Love My Job! Forget the soup - I want romance

Wow, 2008 is a year I would rather forget. Besides buying/paying customers, the year seemed to be missing something. Something was just not right and I could not put my finger on it. As I closed up the shop Christmas Eve, for a much needed break, I came home with the intent of NOT thinking about work, jewelry, or the industry. To distract myself I decided to spend my time updating my bedroom.

As we began to dismantle the room so that we could reach the walls for new paint, our challenge was not the bed but a cedar chest that has stood at the foot of our bed since our first Christmas together some 23 years ago. As my son and husband carried the chest from one room to the next my husband grunted, "What is in this thing?" I replied, "Us." Interested he opened the lid and found boxes of letters among other things. As he randomly pulled out a letter and began to read it, we both turned bright red and got a giggle out of the profession of true love that I had written to him 20 years ago.

Needless to say the rest of the day was spent flipping through little notes, cards and long letters. It was delightful walking back into a time when our biggest problem was not seeing each other for 5 whole hours. It was embarrassing to read how you would just die if you could not get a kiss soon. It was refreshing to read about emotions and feelings so freely and privately expressed.

As our now grown children came and went through the kitchen that day, it was my son that figured out that the more worn letters were the most "juicy" letters. Obviously, they were the best as they had been carried the longest and read the most. He also noted that reading Mom's letters were not much different than reading his sister's. My daughter read a few and in so many words had to admit that maybe I, kind of, sort of, did know how she felt when it came to her boyfriends or a lack thereof.

As I rolled colors of paint on the walls, I began to reflect on the event and I came to realize that this generation will never have that. They will never discover a hidden note in the pocket of their jeans that says, "I love you because..." They will never sit in the kitchen sipping coffee and giggle over a box of long forgotten love letters. They will never open up their day-planner and find a note that says, "Have a great day, then meet me at home for dinner and ..." Today, everything is electronic - e-mail, instant messenger, and 5, 10, or even 20 years from now will be lost, obsolete - never to be read again.

I must confess that as I painted the walls seemed to get bigger and my mind did wander back to the industry. I thought about my most recent diamond buying customers and how such an awesome, sacred, loving experience has been reduced to a conversation of alphabet soup. Potential brides send the hopeful groom in with demands - "1 carat or better." Expectant grooms are reduced to feeling cheap and overwhelmed by the science and grading system of diamonds. I reflected on the volume of paperwork, the dangers of undisclosed treatments, insurance and certificates and became discouraged and angry. How could we as an industry make something so natural and beautiful so difficult?

With this question in mind, and a well rested body (acquired from my now beautiful bedroom), I marched off to the office. I had accepted the fact that I was old fashioned and crazy, so there was no second guessing my plan. I missed the surprise of a letter in the mailbox. I missed the feeling of being impressed that someone ACTUALLY took the time to gather the paper or pencil, write the letter, place it in an envelope, address the envelope, buy a stamp and send it off. What an ordeal it was, but it was so worth it. I miss the romance of being surprised by the expression of his heart. It made me feel special. It is what separated me from all the other ladies in my husband's life.

This year we have one mission - put the romance back into life. Alphabet soup will be the LAST thing I mention in my sales pitch on diamonds. I want to hear about her, his love for her and their dreams. I will sell diamonds - not papers. I want to celebrate love - not the fact that getting the ring is one more thing he can scratch off of his list. I want to go back to a time when the real question was, "Will you marry me?" not, "Do you like the ring and will you accept it?" I will encourage my hopeful grooms to express their heart through words they took the time to think of - not read off of an e-card. I will assist in this adventure by not only helping them find the right diamond, but by giving to them a few blank cards. I will encourage them to write by reminding them that spelling and grammar never count against them when they simply take the time to LOVE someone.

Tammy L. Williams, Graduate Gemologist of GIA, also prizes her membership in AGTA. She is President of J D Jewelers, a salon private jewelry business located in Suwanee, Georgia and the Southeastern Rep for Global Diamonds. Tammy is very active as a speaker and authority on Gemstones and Diamonds. Whether in her laboratory at J D Jewelers, on the lecture circuit or writing about her experiences in business, her love and passion for gemstones becomes contagious. If you'd like to contact Tammy, please e-mail her at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it..


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