A few months ago I wrote about a jeweler that had a bad problem (This Really Happened, June 2016). She had a customer that wanted to marry about 12 or 5,000 elements together from pictures on Pinterest into her totally RAD, one-of-a-kind, custom wedding band. Once finished, her customer had changed her mind and wanted her money back and was just going to order something cheaper online. She called me and asked for my opinion on how to handle the situation. Most importantly, she wanted to know if she should refund the substantial deposit that her customer put down (that she had already spent on having the ring made)? I told her I didn’t have a clue, but I would write about it and ask our colleagues across the country for some advice. Here are a few of the answers in your own words.